There are lot of controversies when it comes to dating relationships. Public opinion has it that men are polygamous in nature, and a large percentage of them cheat in dating and marriage ties. The public opinion might be true, but not always true, as we still have faithful men though.
Well, most ladies believe they're the main bae to their boos whereas they're not. Quite a good number of ladies are already sidelined but they won't know because men know how to run things without suspicion.
Anyways, if you have an air of doubt that you might not be the main chick to your boyfriend, look out for these 3 signs. If you notice these from your boo, there are chances that you might just be a side chick to your LOML.
They're listed as follows;
1. He Doesn't Have Time For You:
If your man doesn't spend quality time with you, it should send a red signal to your 'medulla' organ. It's possible that he's actually busy with job obligations and some other responsibilities. But, if he give you excuses even on public holidays and weekends, that he can't spend time for you, another woman may be possessing his attention while he sidelines you. Most often, if he does this regularly, you're not the main chick to him.
2. He Keeps His Phone From You: From my personal experience, hiding phones from each other among dating partners is an issue that arouses conflicts among dating partners. Well, if your boyfriend keeps his phone away from you, or if he constantly clear his call logs, texts and other stuffs, there are possibilities that he's not really committed to you, and he doesn't want you to be aware of it.
3. He Hides You From Close Pals And Family Relatives:
Men love to flaunt the women in their lives in public. It is not uncommon for men to introduce their girlfriends to friends and family relatives. But, if he's been dating you for a while, and he hasn't or isn't ready to take you to his people, aunty, you might be a side chick to him. So, he won't want to tell his people that he have another chick in the background.
To make things clear, you should talk to him about this, and if he feels reluctant to do that, it's a big indicator that you're a substitute girlfriend to him. Don't be sad.
Conclusion
Dating is not a do-or-die affair. Dear reader, if a man chooses to make you a side chick, you should be able to decide what you want for yourself, and demand such. You may keep dating him of you're okay as the side chick, or else, the best thing to protect your inner esteem is to walk out of his life and never ever return. You deserve something more!
What other signs shows that a lady isn't the main chick in a dating relationship? Your opinions will be respected in the comments section. Thanks for reading.
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Hmmnn. Definitely I'm not the main deal to my boyfriend.
ReplyDeleteThese ones are always true oo
ReplyDeleteThis write-up is absolutely correct
ReplyDeleteSad, but true. Men are serial cheaters.
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